Veteran Nollywood actor, Jide Kosoko has opened up on his marital status, clarifying rumours about his polygamous lifestyle during an appearance on The Honest Bunch podcast.
He emphasized that he currently has two wives and previously had two others, whom he lost, stating, “I didn’t have four wives at the same time.”
Kosoko expressed that he considers himself “lucky” with polygamy, as his wives and children are understanding of their unique family dynamics.
The actor mentioned that he does not advocate for polygamy, acknowledging that not everyone is as fortunate as he is.
Kosoko shared the challenges that can arise in polygamous homes, particularly around occasions like birthdays.
“I am not supporting polygamy. Not everybody can be this lucky. Do you know that in some polygamous homes, you have mothers with different children, and your own daughter’s or child’s birthday is tomorrow?
“Fortunately, we celebrated it elaborately. But when it comes to another child’s birthday, and I am not buoyant enough, my children and their mothers understand that with me.”
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He explained that if resources are limited for celebrating some children’s birthdays, understanding and love in the family help mitigate potential conflicts.
The veteran actor highlighted the importance of showing love to all his children, even if financial constraints affect how and when gifts can be provided.
Kosoko concluded by asserting that fairness in giving should not be driven by comparison between families, as each situation is different and requires understanding.
“If it’s your birthday and I have money, I will do it. If your own comes when I don’t have money, that’s your fate. It’s a matter of luck with me.
“But you must have shown them that you love them all. You must have given them that love in other ways, so when it’s not coming at that material time, they will easily understand.
“Another one will tell me, daddy, anytime you get money, you still need to buy me something for my birthday. I will say, by God’s grace, remind me. And when the money comes and they remind me, I give them what they ought to have gotten for their birthday.
“But don’t tell me that because I bought something for your co-wife’s son, I must also buy for your son. If you do so, you lose it. I won’t buy. That’s not the way I operate.”
